Juan Miguel Ruiz The Four Agreements
In addition to the book and audiobook, there is also an eBook, a four-color illustrated book, a map cover, and an online course.  I know this was written a few years ago. And I still have to take into account some of the author`s misunderstandings about wisdom in “The Four Accords.” Note that the beginning of the book on domestication and dreams is an important preface to understanding the power of new chords. I like what you say. If you wrote a book about your spontaneous agreements, I would read it. I also found it strange to judge a book about the behavior of a person who claims to have read it and about the elderly who are the ancestors of the book author. For this reason, I did not respond to Cccc`s comment. If the commentator explained why he thinks the four agreements encourage people to behave recklessly and selfishly, I might have had an answer. As it stands, I support the idea that, toltec or not, these principles are a healthy lifestyle and correspond to the best practices of modern psychology: we have to break a lot of old agreements and change a lot of domesticated beliefs to actually have a space for someone`s violation or anger on us without judging, withdrawing, defend you, accuse you, intellectualize, they share their dream.
If your convictions create deep happiness in you, then I say: keep them. If they cause trouble, if the beliefs of others are different, consciousness can give you the choice of what you believe and what you let go. So many of our beliefs, concepts, agreements were fed to us as “truth” when we were young, and we accepted them literally and completely. The beginning of the four chords is how our animators domesticated us in a “dream” of life. The only dream they had at our disposal was the one they lived, which they received most often from their parents, etc. The fourth agreement allows readers to better understand the progress made in achieving their life goals. This agreement implies the integration of the first three agreements into daily life and the full potential of exploitation.  It`s about doing what`s best to manage individually, which is different from the different situations and circumstances the individual may face. Ruiz believes that if you avoid self-judgment and do his best at every given moment, he will be able to avoid regrets.  By integrating the first three chords and giving the best of themselves in all facets of life, the individual will be able to lead a life free of sadness and self-extinction.
 If I have to name four self-betrayals that I normally have to do to myself, will they be? One of the most important wisdom teachings of the Tolec tradition is that we all dream – a unique vision and experience of the universe…